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Are you facing an unplanned pregnancy?
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If you’re considering adoption, you’re in the right place. We help many expectant parents like you every year.
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Andrew and Brittany
Dear expectant parent(s), thank you for taking the time to learn a little bit about us. We are Andrew, Brittany, Isaiah, Levi, and Cyrus. We are so excited to grow our family through adoption. When we first started dating we discussed our desire to one day adopt. We are praying that God brings us the right fit our family, in His timing. We are also praying for you and your journey as you plan for you and your child's future.
Read MoreChris and Christa
Read MoreJason and Jenna
Hello! Our names are Jason and Jenna; we have been married since 2020. Jason owns his own business consulting with farmers and Jenna teaches part time at a local Lutheran school. We live in a large farmhouse within a very rural community in the thumb of Michigan; our house is surrounded by beautiful farmland and we are just a few minutes drive away from the beach. Though we have tried to grow our family in the past few years, we do not currently have any children, but we are waiting on God's perfect plan to give us children in His timing.
Read MoreAaron and Amanda
Thank you for taking the time to connect with us through our profile; we are very excited to share more about ourselves with you. In the years since our 2000 wedding, we have prayed that we would someday have the amazing opportunity to become parents. Adoption has always been something in our hearts and on our minds even throughout several years of unsuccessful fertility treatments. After seeing the joyous adoption path of others in our church and praying over the decision we are thrilled to be on our own unique journey.
Read MoreChelsie and Jonathon
Hello! We want to express our deepest gratitude for taking the time to get to know us and consider us as a potential forever family for your precious baby. We can only imagine the difficulty and uncertainty you may be facing as you navigate this journey, and we want you to know that we're here for you, every step of the way. Your courage and selflessness in exploring adoption are truly inspiring, and we hold you in the highest esteem. If you decide to create an adoption plan, please know that we promise to love, cherish, and provide a safe and happy home for your child. You and your baby will be in our thoughts and prayers throughout your pregnancy, and we'll be sending love, peace, and clarity as you make this decision. We're here to support you, and we care deeply about your well-being and the future of your sweet baby. Love, Chelsie and Jonathon
Read MoreJosiah and Ashley
As we sit to write this letter, we are experiencing so many emotions as I am sure you are reading it. First, we would like to acknowledge your courage and strength that you have shown in making a plan for adoption. We are so grateful for your time reading this and learning more about us. While we do not know you or the circumstances that have led you to this decision, we have been praying that God will give you comfort, peace and direction throughout this process. We met when we were children at the church that our families attended. During our childhood and teen years we lived in different countries and then eventually states before reconnecting. Through different circumstances we once again were living in the same state without an ocean or states between us. We started dating and knew after a short period of time that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. We have now been married for 6 years. While we were dating, we both expressed a strong desire to start a family. We discussed having biological children and adopting. After many years of not being able to conceive on our own, we felt God was preparing and leading us to move forward with adoption. As we have mentioned that you have been in our prayers, we have also been praying for the child that God has for us. We both already have so much love for this child even though we have never met them. Please know that if the child God has planned for us is yours, they will always know how brave and selfless you were in this decision. We hope this profile gives you an insight into our hearts and lives. May God continue to give you comfort and peace. With love and admiration, Josiah and Ashley
Read MoreLeah and Wayne
Dear Friend, We cannot imagine what you may be going through or what has led you to make this decision but please know you are not alone and that you are incredibly brave. We pray that God sends angels to surround you with love at this time and that you feel seen and heard. God has brought you to this very moment as part of His divine plan to care for you and show you His unending blessings for your life. He has brought us together for this very reason. We applaud you for making adoption your decision. We have been praying for a baby for many years and we can’t tell you how grateful we are for you. You are truly SPECIAL, STRONG, SELFLESS, and LOVED. We promise to do everything in our control to provide a loving, nurturing, joyful life for your precious little one. We will flood everything we have into loving this baby, and with your help, they will grow up knowing how exquisite they are, how celebrated they are to us and how loved they are by you. Wayne and I (Leah) have been wanting to start a family for many years and our dream is finally coming true. Your baby will be loved beyond measure. Love, Wayne and Leah
Read MoreDavid and Silvia
We are Silvia and David. We want to start by telling you how much we deeply respect and admire you as you are considering adoption and choosing to bring your baby into this world. We’ve been trying to have children of our own for the last six years. We've gone through fertility treatments and consulted with a number of doctors but haven’t been successful. We have always been very interested in adoption. In fact, this is something we discussed even before getting married. For this reason, we feel very fortunate that you are checking our website and considering us as an option. We dream about being parents and having children to raise in a loving home! We have so much love to share with any child we're fortunate enough to be able to adopt.
Read MoreAJ and Rachel
Hello, we are Rachel and Aj! We hope that this small look into our lives will provide you with the warm fuzzy feelings of love and happiness, and that you also know that feeling is what we feel every day we share our love. We appreciate the consideration of sharing a life with your child. It is our fondest wish that we will be a perfect match for your consideration!
Read MoreTiffany and Brennen
Dear friend, Thank you so much for taking the time to look at this snapshot of our family. You probably have so many thoughts and fears running through your head in this moment, and we’re likely just one family out of many that you will consider entrusting with your precious child. Who are we, and what kind of home would we hope to give your child? Our names are Brennen and Tiffany. We are high school sweethearts who have been married for almost nine years now. We have a lovable dog named Winchester and a hyperactive cat named Luna. Ever since high school we have wanted to adopt, and after struggles with miscarriages and infertility we have decided that now is the time to pursue that dream. This is our dream and promise to you: We will provide your child with unconditional love, we will cultivate a home for them filled with joy and wonder, we will display to them the beauty of Christ, we will support them through every triumph and disappointment, we will protect and sacrifice for them, we will honor you and your child’s story, and we will strive with every ounces of our being to give them a family where they never have to doubt that they are fully seen, fully known, and fully loved. What you are doing is one of the hardest, most loving, and selflessly sacrificial things anyone can do. We cannot even begin to express the admiration we have for you. You are a bona fide hero. We are praying for you even now, and if you entrust your child to us, we promise that we will honor that decision for the rest of our lives. You’ll learn more about us thoughout this book, but above all we hope you remember this promise to you.
Read MoreMatthew and Megan
Dear Birthparent... Thank you for taking the time to read our story and learn about us as a potential adoptive family for your child. We deeply admire your decision to turn to adoption for you and your child, and we recognize how overwhelming this experience may be for you. Whether you choose us or another family to parent your child, you are granting a family a priceless and cherished gift, and we are grateful for your kindness, generosity, and selflessness. As you read more about our personalities, beliefs, family background, and home life, we hope you can picture your child fitting in with our family. We promise to raise a child who understands the ultimate gift of life that you have given them, and to make sure you always have a special place in all our hearts. - Matthew, Megan, Isaiah & Silas
Read MoreAshley and Jake
Hello! Let us introduce ourselves; we are Jake and Ashley. We met online in 2012 and quickly realized that we were meant to be together. After dating for a few months, we became engaged and married later that year. In December we’ll celebrate our 11-year anniversary! We always knew we wanted children, but the Lord had different plans for our family. During our infertility journey, we felt called to became foster parents, and opened our license in 2021. We’ve been blessed to care for and walk alongside 3 littles and their families, and while it has had its challenges, we wouldn’t trade it for the world. We love watching children grow, learn and live their lives to the fullest, and hope and pray to be able to experience these things with our own children one day. In September the Lord answered many prayers and we were able to adopt our long-term foster son Ace, and make him an official member of our family! He is sweet, fun, wild (in the best ways), and has been a tremendous blessing to us. He loves babies and other children and we cannot wait to grant his wish for a sibling one day. We love spending time with family and friends, having birthday parties, family dinners, vacations, celebrating all the holidays and creating new traditions. The Christmas season is our absolute favorite, and we love the childlike magic in the air that time of year. A lot of our time is spent outside in the backyard or garden, and we love to explore zoos, parks, farms, and aquariums. It is our dream to raise a child to know the true meaning of family, unconditional love, pure joy, absolute safety, and the Lord’s grace. We are humbled and truly honored that you are taking the time to look at our profile and learn a bit about our family. We pray that you find comfort and peace not only in all upcoming decisions but throughout your life as well. We look forward to walking alongside you during this journey and can't wait to meet you! Thank you for your time and consideration. God Bless!
Read MoreFAQs about adoption
Can I choose the family for my child?
Yes! You can review our online profiles of families who would like to adopt a child and learn all about their personalities and interests. If you decide to place your child for adoption, you’ll be able to meet with the adoptive families you like best.
Are there different kinds of adoption?
You will provide input into the type of relationship you desire between yourself, your child, and the adoptive parents. You can guide the level of communication and contact you have with your child and their adoptive family.
How can I find out my rights as a parent?
You always have the right to explore your options in a safe environment. And you have the right to have all your questions answered honestly and completely. You have these rights, no matter where you are in your pregnancy.
If I’m using drugs, can Bethany still help me?
Yes. Our counselors will help you consider the best options for you and your baby.
My child is already born. Can I still make an adoption plan
In many cases, you can still place your child for adoption after he or she is born.
Finding peace through open adoption
“Bethany made my adoption journey the best choice for me and those I care for. Three different families have become one because of the love and respect that we share—and I’ve found my place as a birth mom in each one of them.”
- Tamara
"When I was pregnant and pursuing an adoption plan, people told me I needed to ask forgiveness for “abandoning my child.” They wanted me to feel ashamed, but Bethany helped take the sting out of their words by reassuring me I had no reason to feel shame. Now my vision is to keep telling this story so other birth moms know they’re not alone.”
- Gloria
“Ten years ago, I was pregnant for the first time, and I was in jail. Making an adoption plan for my son didn’t mean I loved him any less; I just didn’t want my child to end up in the system. My life circumstances wouldn’t mean a life sentence for him.”
- Tamara
"When I found out I was pregnant with twins at age 18, I didn’t know where to turn. I thought, ‘How am I going to become the mom I want to be?’ Bethany helped provide care for my boys while I found a stable job. Today, my boys are thriving in my home.”
- Brijon
“Today, I am substance-free. I’m married with two biological children and two stepchildren. And I still have thoughts and emotions to process about that difficult time in my life, including my decision to make an adoption plan. That’s an experience most people just don’t understand."
- Gloria
Have questions?
Do you want to make an adoption plan or learn about your other options? Fill out a contact form or speak to a Bethany counselor at 1.800.BETHANY