Can I choose the family for my child?

Yes! You can review our online profiles of families who would like to adopt a child and learn all about their personalities and interests. If you decide to place your child for adoption, you’ll be able to meet with the adoptive families you like best.

Are there different kinds of adoption?

You will provide input into the type of relationship you desire between yourself, your child, and the adoptive parents. You can guide the level of communication and contact you have with your child and their adoptive family.

How can I find out my rights as a parent?

You always have the right to explore your options in a safe environment. And you have the right to have all your questions answered honestly and completely. You have these rights, no matter where you are in your pregnancy.

If I’m using drugs, can Bethany still help me?

Yes. Our counselors will help you consider the best options for you and your baby.

My child is already born. Can I still make an adoption plan

In many cases, you can still place your child for adoption after he or she is born.

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Joshua and Megan

We admire you so much for choosing life and considering adoption. Know that we are praying for you and your sweet baby, and we pray that God will fill you with peace in whatever decision you make. We have been truly blessed in so many ways, and we hope we will soon be blessed with a child to love and cherish as our own. We are not perfect, but if you choose us for your child, we promise to always strive to provide a loving and stable faith filled home with lots of family and friends to surround our family in love.

Scott and Katie

Thank you for taking time to look through our profile. We hope you can get an idea of our life and who we are as people. This is a long and difficult process and we want you to be able to choose the best fit for you and your child. We promise to: - love your child unconditionally - support you and the type of relationship you wish to have with your child - spend summers outside by the pool, at parks, and on adventures - build snow forts and go sledding in the winter - learn and grow with your child, supporting their interests and needs - read bedtime stories with all the voices

Hannah and Lucas

Dear birthparent(s), Our names are Lucas and Hannah, and we are so excited to be pursuing adoption to grow our family from two to three. There are not enough words to say “thank you” for your selfless, sacrificial love in making an adoption plan for your precious child. We are especially thankful for your consideration in allowing us to be a part of your journey! We have been blessed to be together for ten years now. We met online when we were 18 and quickly bonded over our love for Jesus, family, and all things outdoors. Two and a half years later, we got engaged, and later married on May 9 of 2020. Over the years, our relationship has only strengthened. By God’s grace, we’ve developed strong communication skills and unity, deeper roots in His Word, a wonderful community, and unshakeable joy and peace regardless of our circumstances. One of our dreams has always been to become parents. Before we even met, God placed it on both of our hearts that one day we would adopt. We never knew how or when, but after two years of infertility, it became clear; now is the time! So in 2025 we started the process. It was never a matter of if we would adopt, but when, and God has written this as the next page in our family’s story. We live in a beautiful beach town in West Michigan where we really take advantage of its amenities. Living just a few miles from town means we often walk, bike, or take our electric scooters to the beach, grab ice cream, or hike and play pickleball at one of the many parks near our home. We also have a small fishing boat we enjoy. We can’t wait to add children to these rhythms of our life! In addition to hiking and fishing, I (Lucas) also enjoy hunting and golfing. Hannah spends most of her down time running, reading, beaching, and organizing things around our house. Annual vacations are also something we enjoy, whether it be a restful weekend up north or a week exploring a new state or country. Even better is when these hobbies and vacations include our family and friends. While Hannah has spent the last 5 years working at our church, our goal when we have children is for Hannah to stay home while I (Lucas) continue working as an electrician – a field I’ve worked in for 10+ years and am thriving as an independent contractor. More than anything, we want to raise our children in a loving, God-centered home, and we believe the best way to do this is by being their primary caregivers. Not to mention we are just excited to spend a ton of time with our kids! We also plan to include our incredible support system in the lives of our children. We both have amazing parents, and have five siblings between the two of us (plus 5 in-laws, 1 nephew, and 2 nieces), and are well connected with our church family where we’ve established mentors and many friends who hold us accountable, pray with us in our struggles, and praise God for our wins. No matter what our family looks like or how it comes to be, our greatest goal in life is to glorify God. In all things, we strive to lead lives marked by the fruits of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control. Our prayer is that our little ones would experience these fruits in their lives, too. Thank you for taking the time to hear some of our story. We are praying for you and hope to get to know you more soon! You are so loved! Sincerely, Lucas & Hannah Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”

Stephanie and Brandon

Hello! 💕👋🏻 If you're reading this, we first want to say thank you. Thank you for taking the time to learn about us during what we can only imagine is an incredibly emotional season of your life. We know that choosing life and an adoptive family is one of the most selfless and courageous decisions a person can make, and we are honored that you are considering us. While we haven't walked the same path you have, we understand what it feels like to carry hopes for a child. After six years of infertility, our hearts have been shaped by waiting, faith, and the deep desire to become parents. Through that journey, we've come to believe that God builds families in many beautiful ways, and we are incredibly grateful to be on this adoption journey. Our greatest promise is simple: your child will always know they are loved. They will grow up in a home where they are celebrated for exactly who they are, encouraged to dream big, supported through life's challenges, and reminded every day that they are deeply cherished. We hope to fill our home with laughter, family traditions, adventures, bedtime stories, hugs, and unconditional love. Our faith is an important part of who we are. It has carried us through seasons of uncertainty and strengthened our hope for the future. We strive to live with kindness, compassion, grace, and gratitude, and we hope to pass those values on to our child. We also want you to know that we will always honor your story. Your child will know how much courage and love it took to make this decision. We believe their adoption story begins with you, and we will speak about you with respect, honesty, and gratitude. We want them to grow up knowing they were loved from the very beginning. You loved them first and we will always honor that. Although we cannot fully understand the emotions you may be experiencing, we want you to know that we are praying for you. We pray for peace in your heart, wisdom in your decisions, and strength for each step ahead. Whatever you choose, we hope you feel surrounded by love and support.

Cameron and Carrie

We are an adventurous, loving family that chooses to live with intention, forgive freely, and encourage one another to dream big about the future. We believe time together is the greatest investment we can make in the present, and we find our deepest joy in being each other's comfort and safe place.

Dan and Alana

Hi! We're glad you found yourself on our Family Profile. Our names are Dan and Alana. Since our first conversations about our future family - back when we were dating in college - we've always known that adoption would be in the picture. We believe that we were all adopted into God's family when we were in a time of need and we want our family to reflect that model. After getting married and taking some time to grow our relationship with each other, we've found that we are longing to give ourselves to a new family member. We are excited to start our family with and through adoption! We are also excited to get to know a family that would trust us to adopt their child, and look forward to starting a long and lasting relationship built on loving and caring for this little one together. We hope that you will consider whether your child could be a part of our family's story.

Amanda and Matthew

Dear Expectant Parent, Thank you for taking the time to learn about us. We know you may be facing deeply personal decisions, and we want to begin by honoring the love, courage, and care you are putting into thinking about your child’s future. We are Amanda and Matthew, together for 10 years and married for 7. Our family is built on Christian faith, love, prayer, patience, and commitment. As we pursue adoption, we do so with open hearts and a deep respect for the story, identity, and birth family that will always be an honored part of a child’s life. Our careers give our family both stability and flexibility. Amanda is a Chemical Engineer with a master’s degree in business and works remotely as a corporate senior manager. Matt is a lead diesel technician just 15 minutes from home, and his four-day schedule gives him three days home each week. We are grateful to provide for our family while still being present in our children’s daily lives. We live in a supportive suburban community that offers both convenience and peace. A grocery store is a quick walk away, yet our backyard feels quiet and country-like—a serene place for children to play, explore, and grow. We are blessed to be parents to our 3-year-old daughter, Emma, who was born profoundly deaf and is on the autism spectrum. Emma is silly, fierce, sassy, determined, inquisitive, and full of perseverance. She loves being outside, dancing, and singing, and she has taught us so much about joy, communication, patience, advocacy, and unconditional love. Our extended family is close and deeply involved. Amanda’s parents moved to Michigan last year and live just 1.5 miles away, where they are loving grandparents and help with childcare when we work. Matt’s family lives about 30 minutes away, including both his grandmothers and his grandfather. We are grateful our children will grow up surrounded by generations of love and support. In our home, a child would be surrounded by faith, encouragement, stability, and unconditional love. We treasure bedtime prayers and stories, family dinners, holidays, walks outside, silly moments, learning new things, traveling, and exploring new places together. We hope to create a childhood where a child feels safe, cherished, included, and free to become who God created them to be. As parents, we will guide with kindness, support with consistency, advocate for each child’s needs, and celebrate their strengths. We will not always get it right, but we will apologize, learn, and adjust. Most importantly, we will make sure your child always knows they are deeply loved and that their story began with love. We understand adoption is about a child’s life, a birth family’s love, and a relationship that deserves honesty and respect. If you choose adoption and choose us, we will welcome a connection that feels healthy and comfortable for everyone, whether through letters, photos, visits, or another form that honors your wishes and your child’s needs. Whatever path you choose, we hope you feel supported, respected, and at peace. Thank you for considering us and for allowing us to share our hearts with you. With gratitude and respect, Amanda & Matt

Katherine and Chris

Hi! We are Chris and Katherine. Thank you for taking the time to look at our profile. We can only imagine the strength and courage it took to do so as you consider what is best for you and your baby. We want you to know that we respect whatever path you choose. If you do choose us to parent your child, it will be an honor and we will love them unconditionally. We are grateful for the chance to share more about our family with you.

Danny and Rosie

Dear Expecting parent, Thank you for taking the time to learn about us and for considering us as potential parents for your precious baby. We admire your strength, love, and courage in making such a selfless and loving decision. Please know that we hold deep respect and compassion for you and the journey you are on. Our hopes for Us: We trust that God will lovingly guide us through this process and lead us to the child He has chosen for our family. Our hope is to walk this path faithfully, keeping Christ at the center of our hearts and our home. We believe that in His perfect timing, He will bring the baby meant for us—one who will complete our family and fill our lives with even more love and purpose. Our hopes for You: We pray that God surrounds you with peace, comfort, and clarity as you make your decision. May He fill your heart with assurance and guide your steps every moment along the way. Above all, we hope you feel supported and loved, knowing that your courage and care are seen and deeply admired. With love and gratitude, Danny & Rosie

Rachel and Michael

Dear Expectant Parent(s), Thank you for taking the time to get to know us. We are Rachel and Michael, and we've been happily married for over seven years. Expanding our family has always been close to our hearts. Coming from large families ourselves, we deeply appreciate the warmth and joy that comes from having a strong support system. Unfortunately, our journey to parenthood has included challenges, as we have been unable to have a child of our own. While this has been a difficult path for us, we have found clarity through heartfelt discussions and prayer. We believe that adopting a child is the path we are meant to pursue. We are so grateful for the example our families have set in valuing love and connection. We are committed to creating a home that is safe, nurturing, and filled with compassion not only for our future child but for you as well. Establishing a relationship with you is important to us, as we recognize the courage and thoughtfulness involved in your decision. We are committed to loving your child as our own. Thank you again for considering our story. We understand that this is a very difficult time for you, full of lots of emotions. We want you to know that we will be holding you in our thoughts and prayers, regardless of the outcome. - Michael and Rachel

Jenn

Dear Friend, Let me begin by saying how humbled I am that you are taking the time to look through my profile. The amount of love, courage, and bravery it takes to walk the path you are choosing is found in very few people. I am praying for you and your child, that you would have wisdom, peace, and confidence in the decisions you are making. While adoption may not be what most people see for their future, it has always been the way I hoped to have a family one day. It would be such a privilege to be able to love and raise a child as my own. They will always know their story and how much you love them. I will always speak highly of you and will always do what is in their best interest. I will always point your child toward Jesus and walk with them as they develop a relationship with Him. This will be through everyday life at home, going to church on Sundays, attending church activities throughout the year, attending a Christian school, living in a community that values faith, and being around family and friends that have the same beliefs and values as I do. In my home your child will come to know 3 things. First, we love Jesus. Second, we are kind. Third, we have fun! Love, Jenn

Samuel and Natalia

Hello! We are so excited for you to get to know us better! We hope you enjoy learning a little more about our family.

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FAQs about adoption

: Yes! You can review our online profiles of families who would like to adopt a child and learn all about their personalities and interests. If you decide to place your child for adoption, you’ll be able to meet with the adoptive families you like best.

: You will provide input into the type of relationship you desire between yourself, your child, and the adoptive parents. You can guide the level of communication and contact you have with your child and their adoptive family.

: You always have the right to explore your options in a safe environment. And you have the right to have all your questions answered honestly and completely. You have these rights, no matter where you are in your pregnancy.

: Yes. Our counselors will help you consider the best options for you and your baby.

: In many cases, you can still place your child for adoption after he or she is born.

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