Finding safe families for children
When a family is in crisis, kids can become vulnerable to neglect and abuse. No family should experience this. Through the Safe Families ministry, volunteer Host Families offer loving care to parents, watching over their children while the parents regain stability.
FAQs about Safe Families
What is the background of the children served by Safe Families?
Children hosted by Safe Families often come from difficult circumstances. They are not believed to be victims of abuse. If they were, they would enter foster care while their parents’ rights were reviewed by the state.
What type of situations do the children come from?
The children come from families that are experiencing a crisis, such as financial problems, unemployment, or homelessness. In other cases, children come from families in which the parent needs time to heal physically or emotionally, or is recovering from a drug or alcohol addiction.
How long does a child usually stay with a Host Family?
The average length of stay is about 30 days, but hosting arrangements can last from two days to six months. We make every effort at the time of placement to estimate the length of stay. Factors include the severity of the family’s crisis and the willingness and ability of the biological parent or guardian to address the issues involved in the crisis.
What ages of children does Safe Families serve?
While Host Families can care for newborns through adolescents (0-17), the majority of children hosted are 4-6 years old.
What type of contact will the Host Family have with the parent(s)?
Parents maintain full custody of their child and are encouraged to maintain contact and participate in decisions regarding their child’s care. Safe Families aims to facilitate a relationship between Host Families and the parent(s), in which the host family becomes a kind of “extended family” for the family in crisis. Host Families are strongly encouraged to maintain a relationship with the family even after the hosting ends.
Will a child in Safe Families typically have behavior problems?
Possibly, but not necessarily. Trauma can influence a normally well-behaved child to behave poorly, and can influence a child with behavior problems to behave better. Some children may display behavioral problems as a result of the chaos in their lives, while others may be exceptionally calm and composed. It’s impossible to predict how the child will behave. Remember, it is the crisis of the parent(s) which trigger a referral, not difficult behaviors of a child.
Can the Host Family adopt the child?
The goal of Safe Families is to reunite children with their parent in a home that is more stable and healthy. Currently, 95% of all families reunify, often in the most stable environment they’ve ever known. If, however, the parent loses legal custody of their child(ren), Host Families are welcome to contact a social services agency about the possibility of fostering or adopting.